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March 26, 2008

A Journey Well Taken going to print

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My book is finally going to print this week. It feels like it’s been a long process, but it has really been a great learning experience. I am so glad I decided to take control of this project and put it out there myself. It’s been incredibly rewarding. The designer inserted the testimonials for me into the text of the book, about 24 of them in all, and also added two on the front and back cover. I am very excited about this and can’t wait to see the final book. Actual publication is still scheduled for June of this year, but it’s growing ever closer. I am in the process of writing new articles related to dating after loss and the loss of a spouse. I’m also considering creating some new videos for some of my grief related articles.

 I’ve almost felt like I was stuck this week in some kind of limbo, but thankfully that feeling has passed. I love charging through my days and getting lots accomplished, that’s who I have always been, but when I get struck by this inertia, I hate it. So, life is moving forward once more, each day a new adventure. Meanwhile, I’m doing my best to keep on top of the marketing and pubicity. I search out other grief related blogs and connect with others in this grief experience. It’s been very rewarding, and only time will tell the final outcome. Soon, I will be setting up an account on Amazon and my book will be available at all online stores.

March 11, 2008

New Book Reviews for A Journey Well Taken: Life After Loss by Elaine Williams

I am posting the latest book reviews for “A Journey Well Taken: Life After Loss.” Some of them were received via email. At this point I have about 22 positive reviews on the book, which will be available June 2008.

“I enjoyed your book! It’s obvious that you’re a good writer and it’s a heart-felt story.”

Diane Brandon
Integrative Intuitive Counselor & Intuition Teacher, Speaker
Author of “Invisible Blueprints: Intuitive Insights for Fulfillment in Life”
www.dianebrandon.com

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“The book is good and I am sure that it will be quite helpful to early/young widows.

It is also a quick read - which is also a good thing as something complex was certainly beyond me during those early years and I know this is the case for many women. As well, you do catch some of the nuances of widowhood - nuances which can only be brought to light by one who has been there. Best of luck with it.”

Mie Elmhirst PCC, MBA, Widow’s Life Coach
www.widowsbreathe.com

“I related to so many things you shared in your book. I’m encouraged by how you have uncovered your own inner strength through your journey. I hope and continue to pray that God will reveal his purpose for your life as well as my own. I’ve been drifting since my husband’s death in 2004.

After, 28 years of marriage with my junior high school sweetheart I have felt totally alone and lost even with two grown children and three wonderful granddaughters. One of which was born following my husband’s death in 2005 and now carries his name forward. It’s just not the same. It was very helpful to know you have walked through the challenges and you are moving forward by taking new steps every day. Blessings to you and thank you for sharing with me. So, many will be blessed and encouraged by reading your book.”

Karen White
Widowed 2004

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“We have some things in common when it comes to the subject of grief and it feels as though I know you after reading ‘A Journey Well Taken: Life After Loss’. I admire your willingness to be open and vulnerable — I’ve seen pain and loneliness in there too, and you talk about that openly.”

Fred Frank, Owner Comfort Music and
www.growingthroughgrief.com

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Testimonials Received via email

“I just want to say that I read your excerpts of your story and I found it so touching and inspirational. I found it by accident, as if I was led to it. I lost my husband suddenly and have experienced all that you mention as far as grieving. Just recently my mother was diagnosed with esophagus cancer, and has elected to try radiation. She is a two-time survivor of cancer. So what I’ve read so far, in your excerpt from your book, is very informative, and so touching. Thank you for sharing it.”

Steppingstone

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“Thank you so much. . . it helps somehow to know what you’re feeling is normal and that you’re not alone with those feelings. The more stories I read the more I realize
I’m not going crazy, but that I’m grieving. You have taken so many words right out of my own mouth. Any help on healing is a welcome in my life.”

Bonnie S. widow of 3 years

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“I really enjoyed reading your book. I just wanted you to know I feel some of your pain. Thanks again for writing your book and may God bless you.”

Polly R.

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“Thank you for sharing your story with us. You are very strong and give me courage.”

Nicole

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“I was looking on the web for information to help my mom who was just widowed a month ago. I ran across your story. As I began to read it I got goose bumps. I knew your husband had esophageal cancer as soon as I read about his burping. My dad just lost his battle with that horrid disease. We also tried many alternatives because he also felt he wouldn’t survive the traditional approach.

My heart goes out to you. Your husband was way too young to be stricken down by this disease. Your children should have been able to have their dad much longer. He sounded like a good man. I am sorry that you weren’t able to grow old together, as I am sure you planned. My dad was 76, full of life, a great husband, father, and grandfather and interested in everything. Even though we know he lived a full life we thought he was too young, but we are all grateful for having had him that long. . . my mom misses him like crazy. Thanks for sharing your story.”

Cathy B.

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“I am a 47 year old woman and just lost my husband 30 days ago today suddenly from cardiac arrest. Finding and reading your excerpt tonight is truly a blessing and has brought me comfort in knowing that I’m not alone. What you’ve put into words describes so much of what I’m feeling inside. I will look forward to reading more of your journey that is only beginning for me.”

Patti W., widowed 1 month

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“I was very moved by your story. Like you, I also lost my husband suddenly to cancer and believe that although we move on and stay strong for our children, our hearts never really heal. I read the first part of your book to my best friend last night who stood with me and went with me to chemo with my husband. The tears rolled down our faces as we shared in your grief.”

Miriam B.

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“I’ve just finished reading your story. My Dad, my Mom’s partner for 38 years, died. . . the past 2 months have been, as you can imagine, very, very difficult. I was looking online about what a person goes through when they lose their life partner. I want to understand what my Mom is going through that she may not be able to express. I also wanted to find something that would maybe encourage her, and give her hope.

Your story touched me so deeply… It brought me to tears. (I had to close my door and just take the time I needed to read your story in its entirety.) Thank you for taking the time to write your story… Please know you’ve touched a life today.”

Jeanette P.”I just want to say that I read your excerpts of your story and I found it so touching and inspirational. I found it by accident, as if I was led to it. I lost my husband suddenly and have experienced all that you mention as far as grieving. Just recently my mother was diagnosed with esophagus cancer, and has elected to try radiation. She is a two-time survivor of cancer. So what I’ve read so far, in your excerpt from your book, is very informative, and so touching. Thank you for sharing it.”

Anon

February 19, 2008

New Book Review by Laurie Weiss, Ph.D.

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“Elaine Williams gives her reader the gift of herself with her simple and profound sharing of the experience every happily married woman dreads, nursing her life partner through his final illness and coming to terms with life alone. It isn’t neat and it isn’t pretty, but it is so real it leaves us with hope that even the unthinkable can be assimilated and integrated into an evolving life. Thank you, Elaine, this is a beautiful book. “

Laurie Weiss, Ph.D
Author, Being Happy Together: How to Create a Fabulous Relationship With Your Life Partner in Less Than an Hour a Week  and Recovery from CoDependency: It’s Never Too Late to Reclaim Your Childhood (with Jonathan B. Weiss, Ph.D.)

www.empowermentsystems.com 

February 16, 2008

New Book Review by Bereavement Author Pamela D. Blair

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“Elaine Williams has written a deeply personal, yet universally appealing and boldly honest account of the loss of a loved one that will inspire and motivate the reader to grieve and go on — to not only survive in the face of loss, but ultimately to thrive. I am pleased to highly recommend it.”

Pamela D. Blair, co-author I Wasn’t Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping and Healing After the Sudden Loss of a Loved One, and
The Next Fifty Years: A Guide for Women at Midlife and Beyond.
http://www.pamblair.com/

February 13, 2008

A Review of A Journey Well Taken: Life After Loss

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The new book reviews/testimonials are trickling in. I feel fortunate to receive the following from Ligia Houben, Life Coach, Grief Counselor/Thanatologist.

“I just finished reading your story. I was so touched by the sensitivity of your words and how you share your feelings of sadness, despair and at the same time bravery and hope. Your story is a testimony of love, strength and hope. In your lines you have described a painful experience but at the same time the evolution of a wonderful woman who does not stop searching…Thank you for sharing this wonderful piece with me…as a thantalogist and grief counselor I can see you went through the different stages and tasks bereaved persons go through and you transformed your loss into an opportunity to grow personally and spiritually. It is a pity I didn’t have your story when I wrote my book in Spanish “Transforma tu perdida. Una antologia de Fortaleza y esperanza.” (Transform your loss. An anthology of strength and hope). It would have been an inspiration as well….”

Ligia M. Houben, MA, CT,CG-C,CAS,CH
Life Transitions Coaching and Consulting
Certified Grief Counselor-Thanatologist
Professional Speaker-Author
My Meaningful Life

Finding Meaning in Life Transitions
http://www.mymeaningfullife.com/
http://www.elvalordemivida.com/
http://www.transformatuperdida.com/

January 27, 2008

Advance Reviews on A Journey Well Taken: Life After Loss

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I’ve been getting advance reviews on my book, some very generous reviews, so I’ll be posting them first to my website, then to my blogs. I’ve been busy working on new articles also, so looking forward to posting those. I’m planning on going to see “No Country for Old Men.” I heard it was a good movie, so we’ll see tonight.

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